It
often occurs to me that many of our sisters in Islam are not correctly
enlightened or encouraged once they begin to observe the requirements of
Hijaab (Islamic women's dress). It may be that a sister has been
obliged to wear the Hijaab without truly pondering over its superiority
and uniqueness.
Perhaps
she has reached the age of puberty and her parents have instructed her
to wear it. Perhaps she has recently accepted Islam and her close
companions have told her of its obligation, or perhaps her husband has
commanded her to wear it.
A
sister who does not truly know the superiority of Hijaab will always
remain envious of disbelieving women. Why? Because they observe these
misguided disbelievers attempting to look beautiful for all to see.
Hence, the Muslim woman then compares herself to that woman, which
causes her to feel ashamed of her own Hijaab.
Therefore,
what follows is a reminder for my sisters in Islam. It is a reminder of
the true status of these so-called beautiful women. It is a reminder of
the excellence of the women who wear Hijaab.
Excellent Qualities of Those who Wear Hijaab:
It
is well known that the Muslim woman is a creature of modesty. Allaah
loves for our Muslim women to be shielded by their Hijaab. It is their
outer protection from the decadence of this life. Allaah’s Messenger said: “Allaah is modest and covering. He loves modesty and privacy.” [Ahmad and Others]
Thus,
as modesty is a quality that is loved by Allaah, our sisters must take
comfort in knowing that they are modest and not like those women who
show themselves off to the world. Such women will not be shielded from
Allaah’s wrath. Allaah’s Messenger said: “Any woman who takes off her clothes in other than her husband’s home, has broken Allaah’s shield upon her.”[Abu Daawood and At-Tirmithi[
Therefore,
we see that the Hijaab of the Muslim woman is indeed part of modesty.
Modesty accompanies Eemaan (faith); this is why the Messenger of Allaah said: “Modesty is part of Eemaan and Eemaan is in Paradise.” [At-Tirmithi] Also: “Modesty and Eemaan are (intimate) companions: when one departs, so does the other.” [Al-Haakim and Others]
The
Muslim woman must know that the disbelieving women who beautify
themselves for the whole world to see possess no modesty; thus, they are
void of any Eemaan. Instead of looking to the latest fashion models for
guidance, she should look to the wives of the Prophet .
Look at the regard for modesty that our mother, ‘Aa’ishah possessed, even in the presence of the deceased; she said: “I used to enter the room where the Messenger of Allaah
and my father, Abu Bakr, were buried without wearing my (outer)
garment, saying that it was only my husband and my father. But when
‘Umar bin Al-Khattaab was later buried (in the same place), I did not
enter the room except that I had my outer garment on, due to being shy
of ‘Umar.”
It
could be quite difficult for the Muslim woman to go out wearing Hijaab
in a society that mocks and torments her. She would certainly feel
strange and incongruous. However, if she realises the status of those
who are mocked by the disbelievers, then she would continue to wear her
Hijaab with dignity.
Allaah Says in His Book (what means): “Indeed,
those who committed crimes used to laugh at those who believed. And
when they passed by them, they would exchange derisive glances. And when
they returned to their people, they would return jesting. And when they
saw them, they would say: 'Indeed, those are truly lost.' But they have
not been sent as guardians over them. So Today [i.e., the Day of
Judgement] those who believed are laughing at the disbelievers, on
adorned couches, observing. Have the disbelievers [not] been rewarded
[this Day] for what they used to do?” [Quran: 83:29-36]
These
words of Allaah should serve as a support for you, my dear sister.
Also, take comfort in being a stranger among these lewd and sinful
women. Allaah’s Messenger said: “Islam
began as something strange, and it will revert to (its old position of)
being strange, so good news is for the strangers.” [Muslim]
The Characteristic of the Exposed:
Instead
of wearing the Hijaab (covering), the disbelieving women expose
themselves, making a dazzling display of themselves for others. Such a
display is an attribute of ignorance. Allaah Says in His Book (what
means): “And abide in your houses and do not display yourselves as [was] the display of the former times of ignorance…”[Quran 33:33]
Allaah’s Messenger said: “The
best of your women are the affectionate, the fertile, the comforting,
and the agreeable – if they fear Allaah. The most evil of your women are
those who expose and display themselves, and those who strut (to show
off), and they are the hypocrites. Those who enter Paradise are like the
red beaked crow.” [Al-Bayhaqi] The mentioning of this kind
of crow is to highlight that those who enter Paradise will be as rare as
this kind of crow.
We
see from the above verse and Hadeeth (prophetic statement) that it is
certainly unlawful for a Muslim woman to make a display of herself.
Further, it is a quality of the most evil of women. Therefore, do not be
envious of the disbelieving women. They only have this life to enjoy,
while the believing women will have Paradise. There is nothing in your
Hijaab to be ashamed of as it is the garment of the righteous and pious
female worshippers of Allaah.
In
order to truly show how evil those women who expose themselves are, let
us ponder over the following statement of Allaah’s Messenger : “Of
the people of Hell, there are two types that I have never seen; the
first are those holding whips like the tail of an ox with which they
flog people. The second are women who would be naked despite being
dressed (i.e. either partly dressed or wearing translucent clothes), who
are seduced and who seduce others. Their hair is high like the humps of
a camel. These women will not enter Paradise, nor will they smell its
fragrance, although its fragrance can be smelled from such and such a
(very far) distance.”[Muslim]
These women who expose themselves are common among us today. These are women that even the Prophet
did not see! Look around you and you will see those women who are
clothed but naked! Look at the hair styles of the women who expose
themselves – are they not high like a camel’s hump?
Perhaps we are the first generation since the time of Aadam
to witness such women. If one ponders over photographs taken thirty to
fifty years ago, he will see that the disbelieving women did not expose
themselves in the manner that their offspring do today! These women are
among the people of the Fire! Thus, how can you envy them?
Therefore,
the Muslim men should not let the people of the Fire affect the modesty
of their wives, daughters and sisters. Such lewd women will not even
smell the fragrance of Paradise, so our women must avoid their path.
Another lesson from the above Hadeeth is that it confirms that what the Prophet
came with is indeed the truth! This is a prophecy that has come to pass
in front of our very eyes. Hence, will we continue to envy these evil
women, or should we be grateful to our Lord for the Hijaab, which brings
modesty which leads to Paradise?
On
the whole, the Muslim woman should abandon all of the ways of the
exposed, and adopt the ways of those who are modest through their love
and practice of the proper Islamic Hijaab
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